My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 23:55

My boyfriend wants to break up over too many petty arguments. To me, they are molehills because I truly love him & don't really think twice about them. If he loved me would he work through it?

I will answer your question with a question:

That’s a strange way to show you love someone.

If you love him, why do you argue with him over “molehills” that don’t matter to you? Is that how you express love, by fighting over things you just said you don’t even think twice about?

How do I know if he loves me? When he wants me to be his gf he make time for me and send me morning and night messages and done everything to melt my heart. Now I am his gf and he don't treat me that way now.

I can’t honestly say I blame him for breaking up with you. Constant fights over things you don’t even care about? That seems like problematic behavior to me.